Treat Yo’Self To a Solo Picnic & Get Your Life!
Hello beautiful ones! I pray that you’re doing exceedingly well!
Sisterfriend, we need to have a heart-to-heart. I can’t tell you how many women have never been on a picnic. Yep, you read that right. They’ve never been on a picnic because they’re waiting on someone else, namely a man, to take them. Ummm, first of all, why are some women waiting on someone else to do something they can do for themselves? Second, why is it that some of us feel that the only way to experience & enjoy a picnic is with a man?
Picnics are NOT only for couples and families; never have been, so don’t let anyone tell you differently. But since a few women think this way, ,let me enlighten you on a few things that a solo picnic will do for you:
First, your self-confidence will increase! You’ll not only show the world, but more importantly, YOURSELF, that you are not afraid of doing what it takes to meet your wants & needs.
Second, you begin to choose you and your happiness the moment you decide to go for it, not allow outdated thinking, and or others to influence your decision. As a result, your self-esteem increases and you begin to see yourself in a position of power, purpose, and greater potential.
Third, you’ll begin to gain a new perspective on life. This leads to giving yourself permission to think differently, act differently, and feel differently. Ultimately, you begin to control what’s right for you!
Give yourself permission to think, act & feel differently to control what’s right for you!
Fourth, you gain clarity of & self-control over your emotions. There’s something about being alone and at peace that allows the mind, heart & soul to get in tune with one another. For a change, your thoughts, feelings, emotions, & actions are no longer being directly or indirectly manipulated by others. Therefore, you’ll have the ability to truly understand how you truly feel & think versus what you’re told to feel & think!
Fifth, you realize that the only validation you need to make you happy is your own! More often than not we look to family & friends to validate our actions, feelings & emotions. You finally realize that you’re more than capable of making the right decisions for yourself. Of course, there will be times when you’ll want and need advice from others, but that’s not the same as validation.
Sixth, you’ll start doing more of the things that you’ve wanted to do but didn’t. It’s so true that the hardest step is the first one. But boy oh boy, once you take it be prepared for more of everything that’s good for you!
BONUS TIP: your attractiveness & sexiness increases! Men love women who are confident, self-assured but not cocky, have a zest for life, are independent thinkers & doers, and aren’t afraid to color outside the lines.
Ready for your solo picnic? I can’t wait to hear about it! In the meantime, below are a few items that will make your picnic epic!