Hello, beautiful!

I am so happy that I have a chance to talk to you. We’re all so busy nowadays that talking is a luxury for many of us. How are you? How is life treating you? It might seem like these are questions asked for the sake of asking, but I am genuinely curious to know your story.

That’s because I want to help you and other women like you to feel free to share their stories without the fear of being judged or ridiculed for their decisions. Oh, yes! I know all about this. In fact, did you read my story? (here could be a link to your intro for extra traffic)

But, enough about me; THIS IS ABOUT YOU! It’s time to think a little about yourself! I can help you find the path to your true self. No, you don’t need to buy anything to feel fabulous. You just need to be honest with yourself and sincerely answer a few questions:

  • Have you been in touch with your inner self lately?
  • Do you know what you want from life?
  • Are you afraid to express your true emotions?
  • Do you feel lost and insecure at times?
  • Do you have the feeling that your life doesn’t belong to you anymore?

If you answered ‘yes’ to even one of these questions, it’s time to pump your brakes, pull over, & stop! Stop right now and think! Silence everything around you and find out why you’ve said ‘yes.’ Behind that ‘yes’ a world of doubt, fear, and solitude are waiting to lead you to unhappiness. Stop walking on this path right now!

It’s time to change your attitude toward life so that life can change its attitude toward you. I know it sounds complicated, but it isn’t. Your time has come to break free from whatever and whoever is keeping you a prisoner in a life that is not yours and learn how to fly again ON YOUR OWN, ON YOUR TERMS!!

From this moment on, you must EDUCATE & ALLOW YOURSELF to live fearlessly, authentically, and unapologetically. It will take time and effort! You will have to learn to SAY NO to whatever and whoever makes you feel unhappy and SAY YES to LIVING YOUR BEST LIFE!

Sister-friend, it will not be easy, and it might seem that it is too hard to change now but, trust me, if you keep doing what you're doing your life will be much more unsatisfying than the work it takes to make a change! Once you begin to see the truth about life and yourself, the road to happiness will be like a smooth dance on the rhythms of an Aretha Franklin song. Balsam for the soul and cure for the heartache!

And, of course, I will be by your side every step of the way. YOU WILL NOT BE ALONE on the road to rediscovery. I will help you TAKE BACK YOUR LIFE.

I will try and make the process of reconnecting with yourself and the true meaning of life fun and enjoyable. I don’t believe in having to suffer to get to the other side. If you’re smart you can learn how to be happy without exposing yourself to (more) pain.


We will start with a short questionnaire. Don’t worry! You don’t need to study before answering these questions. If you are brutally transparent and answer like no one is watching – no one will be – you will complete it in 15-30 minutes.

Think about it! 30 minutes is not even a cosmic blink. The questionnaire is your guiding light on the road to getting back your true self. It will lead your steps toward your inner world and pave the way to finding answers about yourself. Real answers! Life-changing answers!


A worksheet will follow the questionnaire. It will unveil the reasons behind your insecurities and unhappiness. Completion of this step will open the door to the new you and the light of knowledge will invade your being. Oh, you will taste the sweetness of freedom!

Once you complete this training, you will be free to be yourself and will experience the exhilarating feeling of being the master of your destiny. You will have the tools and know how to take back your life and live fearlessly, authentically, and unapologetically.


The first thing you must do before answering the questionnaire is to dedicate some time to BEING ALONE. You know! Just you and your inner self.

Close your eyes and free your mind from routine, social media and pointless questions. Focus on yourself. You can hear your true self in the back of your mind during this process. It’s trying desperately to get to you. Let it pass through that cloud of preconceptions, rules, and expectations thrown in there by society.

Say "WELCOME MY TRUE SELF! I am now ready to hear you talk." And listen! Listen to the reasons why she got stuck there. Who has made her vanish from your daily life? Why is she hiding? Who or what is responsible for chaining her in conformity and unhappiness?


BE TRANSPARENT and VULNERABLE. Vulnerability is not a flaw as others might imply. It’s the way to living an authentic life in harmony with our emotions and inner self.

Don’t be afraid to be yourself! Your TRUE SELF! It is the only way to live an authentic life where regrets do not reside. Be vulnerable and real! Be in touch with you. KNOW YOURSELF, AND THE WORLD WILL EMBRACE YOU.

I will now let you be! You have homework to do, and I don’t want to keep you from getting an 'A+.' I will return in a few days to check on you and see how you are doing.

I encourage you to keep the communication channels open and get in touch with me whenever you need to vent, feel confused, or just need reassurance that I'm in this for the long haul with you! Tweet me @chicclassyspicy anytime to get some feedback & support during the course from myself & other participants. Use the hashtag #CCSCRUSHLIMITS so we can all pitch in and help!

Finally, here are a few things I suggest you do today:

Follow me on social media @chicclassyspicy
Tell your friends on Twitter, IG & Facebook about your experience and tag @chicclassyspicy
Get a good night’s rest!

Have a wonderful day on purpose and remember to keep it Chic.Classy.Spicy.!